We’re quickly approaching the silly season, and everything is ramping up: the end-of-year parties, the get-togethers, the cooking, the holidays, the present-hunting, the life organisation for 2020…
If your to-do list is already seemingly endless and you’re starting to panic, this article is here to help. After all, life is now busier than ever, making self-care more important than ever. There are only so many opportunities to put your own oxygen mask on first before assisting others.
Here are five ways to ease the mental load and make your life easier over the next couple of months:
1 – Tick child care off your to do list
Your work or study situation is changing in the new year and you’re contemplating enrolling your child in an early learning centre for 2020. But when there are a million other things to think about, this might also seem overwhelming: how do you decide on the right centre for your child? And where do you even begin with enrolment?
Luckily, The Learning Sanctuary have centres throughout Australia offering high-quality early learning environments, giving children endless opportunities to play, learn and develop their identity. The enrolment process is simple and only takes one phone call to get started – call 1800 314 517 to speak to the team and work out what might best suit your family’s needs.
From there, you can take a tour of your local centre and be introduced to the centre manager and educators, all while being provided with relevant information on each step of the process to help ease your decision. Plus, if you get started now, you’ll have more time up your sleeve to ease your child into the process, step by step.
2 – Don’t feel bad about RSVP’ing no to things
The closer it is to the end of the year, the faster the calendar invitations begin flooding in. “We have to catch up before Christmas!” is the first thing everyone says.
Here’s a tip: save the catch-ups for those long, hot, lazy days of January and take the time to clear your schedule in November and December. Make a polite excuse to skip the end-of-year parties if you’d rather stay home and catch up on Netflix – and don’t feel bad about any of it.
There’s only so much time in each day, so ease your own guilt by focusing on what really matters – spending time with family and friends that you may not have seen throughout the rest of the year, and connecting with them over the things you might like to do.
3 – Book in casual child care days to get shopping and planning done
If your child is already enrolled in child care but only attending a couple of days, why not consider booking an extra casual day or two if you think it might help lighten your mental load? This time of year is prime for accessing some extra education and care, depending on how it fits in with your family’s schedule.
In an ideal world, you’ll be able to tick off the shopping, the planning and those pesky life-administration tasks that always get pushed to the bottom of the list. Let’s face it, being on the phone to the insurance company gets considerably easier when there’s no little ones there to distract you or test out their new xylophone toy!
4 – Buy (and wrap) presents now
If your family celebrates Christmas, why not set yourself a budget and get buying some presents throughout the year?
As soon as you purchase them, wrap immediately and stick a post-it on top, reminding yourself what the present is, then hide in a bag for your child. If you have more than one child, assign one bag per child to hold their presents – you wouldn’t want the Bluey plushie getting muddled up with the LEGO would you?
This saves the last-minute Christmas Eve rush of frantically trying to get presents all wrapped up and under the tree, leaving you with more energy to decide on what snacks Santa and the reindeer might prefer…
5 – Try to out-source end of year lunches or dinner
Life is that much easier when you’re not battling the December crowds to try to pick up food for an enormous meal, only to get home and spend hours cooking for extended family.
If someone else is offering to host end-of-year celebrations, go ahead and take them up on it, without succumbing to any guilt about accepting the invitation. Or if you celebrate Christmas as more of a low-key event, bite the bullet and book in for a feast at your local favourite hotel, RSL or surf club.
You can spend the cash you’ve saved on the giant Christmas ham by putting it towards an extra-special meal for the family. And even the kids will have fun enjoying a brand-new experience (and potentially a new family tradition…).
Want to find out more about The Learning Sanctuary, and book in to tour a centre near you? Speak to our family specialists today by calling 1800 314 517.